This is our most adaptable and gentle option, designed to completely separate the event of cremation from the time of remembrance. By prioritising flexibility, this structure ensures your memorial is held exactly when and how your family needs it, without the pressure of immediate deadlines.

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• The Cremation First: The cremation is carried out promptly, often within days of the necessary paperwork being finalised. This step allows the practical arrangements to conclude efficiently, granting immediate peace of mind.

• The Personalised Memorial: The commemorative service—whether a formal ceremony or an informal gathering—is held later, often weeks or months after the death. This crucial delay offers ample time for distant family to travel, for healing to begin, and for the event to be thoughtfully coordinated and planned.

• The Ashes: Your loved one's presence remains personal to your family. The service can be profoundly meaningful with the ashes present in a beautiful urn, acting as a centrepiece, or held entirely without them—the choice is always yours.

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This service is ideal for families who value maximum freedom in planning, those who require time for global coordination, or anyone who wishes to focus the event entirely on a joyous celebration of a life lived, rather than the immediate context of loss.